What is going on with men nowadays why are most of them so whimpy and shy when the should not be.
We have a local forum in the internet in which you have a profil with foto and stuff...most men klick but never say...hello-you look nice let's talk a bit. Why...when I ask them they say they were afraid ...they fear rejection. What a waste. No pain no gain or what! It feels as if most need a motherly encouragement to even say something an d that not just in online-forums. I am so bored to death with that. It makes me tired. :)

Don't be so hard on those guys! You know, I like sensitive guys better than the macho idiot protype.
There should be balance and confidence-but that comes after having success. If they have never succeeded in a relationship, they won't want to be vulnerable. If they WANT a relationship, they are going to have to be at some point. It doesn't work well, otherwise. I understand your plight though. The balance should be sensitive+ confident+vulnerable+intelligence+design+(quirk of your choice)+staying power=man of your dreams

dollar + brain = 8

get off the mofugin' forums. get yor ass to a library and meet yourself a scientist.

'first, i would just like to get to know you'

'WHOAAHYOU?!'

'Yeah.'

'My CPU is a nueron net processor, a learning computah'

I think these ancient words of wisdom are still true today. I hope this helped.

This was not ment to be a hate tirade against shy guys...I love them dearly....but the balance is it!!!! don't you guy's think that it is hard for a woman to...she gets also rejected but...hey....thats life...and above that a woman must always ask herself does he like what I am or does he like because I have nice titts. Sorry...I just sometime very angry about all that cause nature made this cruel thing that they gave us brain and ratio and stuff but then puts sumthing animalic stupid between to make us suffer. :)

I will get over it but today I just have to be a bit angry. Toooo much peace and love here in that forum. Let's talk "tacheles". hahahahaha ;)

fatribz??? no i did not get this!

online forums are not where to go to get a hot date! go out to the places you imagine the guy of your dreams would hang out, like a 10E exhibit in the mountains, for example

I actually said that...THIS...is not a phenomenon of forum but in GENERAL! believe me I have enough outdoor contact.....but mountains...are a gooood idea!

Now I will go out and have a pint! Cheers! :)

beer

coool a Computer Science Friend explained you joke to me.....wow....good way to get the geeks

Shy guys get no nookie.

Shy guys are better lovers :P

I used to be bold once upon a time, It resulted in a restraining order and a near sexual harassment charge. Now its shy guy all the time.

Marilyn Monroe:


He's not so good in a crowd but when you get him alone,
you'd be surprised.
He isn't much at a dance but then when he takes you home,
you'd be surprised.
He doesn't look like much of a lover,
don't judge a book by its cover,
'cause he's got the face of an angel but
there's a devil in his eye!
He's such a delicate thing but when he's starting to squeeze,
you'd be surprised.
He doesn't look very strong but when you sit on his knee,
you'd be surprised.
At a party or at a ball,
I've got to admit he's nothing at all,
but in a Morris chair, you'd be surprised.
He doesn't say very much but when he's starting to speak,
you'd be surprised.
He's not so good at the start but at the end of the week,
you'd be surprised.
On a streetcar or in a train,
you'd think he was born without any brains.
But in a taxi cab, and when he starts to grab,
I say in a taxi cab, you'd be surprised.
This one's a real danger!